When you rely on your partner to make you happy. When you believe your other half will complete you, you're actually forgetting who you are. If you want to find love, its vital that you are a person who has your own needs, your own life so that when you meet someone you are already whole.

You don't have to live in fear that they are going to leave & and you don't need to give up your needs to satisfy another persons needs. You can be yourself, accept yourself and know you are enough, you are your own person. And if that person ever leaves you know that you can always find love again because love is always available to you.

When you go into a relationship you ask what the other person wants- and you're crazy in love and you just want to be with them all the time and you want to meet all their needs.

Which is lovely in the beginning, but that is not sustainable and we sometimes forgot ourselves with our own goals, desires and dreams. You should not have to give them up for another person. You may have to compromise, but you going into a relationship with your own goals and your own needs.

Whatever relationship you are in, you will not feel complete by putting someone else first, making their needs more important than your needs and hiding your own needs and pretending you haven't got them. Keep pursuing your dreams and desires and find someone who is amazing who is in love with your soul. What can i do to make myself happy and full of purpose? Find what you really want. Only you can make you happy .

Be yourself, accept yourself and know you are enough and you are your own person.

Love Holly xxx

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