I help Spiritual Ambitious Women suffering from  Perfectionism, Grief  & loneliness reclaim their Freedom, inner peace,  Self Love, Sovereignity & self trust by connecting to their higher self and living a life they love



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I have Always been  an ambitious woman, athlete & mother, however i was Navigating Self betrayal & Perfectionism After leaving my Hometown, friends and family and my whole social circle i created Perfectionism in my mind to protect me from the social isolation, loneliness and grief living in the rural cotswolds away from my family bringing up my young son— i began a journey of intense self healing one-day-at-a time clearing all my traumas through Spirituality, Trauma Therapy, Studying Quantum Physics, Metaphysics, Natural medicine & Taking off whenever i could into nature and climbing & Running mountains.

Feeling safe and being part of a community and a sense of belonging is the most basic human need, and productivity is built upon this baseline. However, serious setbacks can lead to negative emotions that cause a downward spiral.
Whatever the emotion  & belief that overtakes us—feeling weak, unwanted, desperate, dejected, or anxious—there is one common element: We feel isolated and alone. Without help, the spiral downward can become a crisis, and someone needs to reach out before the human spirit breaks.

SoulCompete was born through a desire to support women through their struggles. Our primary focus is helping other women with isolation & loneliness, perfectionism & self betrayal, both of which we address through a series of impactful Services & Events tailored to the community and individual needs.

Our Ethos is to improve lives of women with the tools of Spirituality, healing traumas, science, self-awareness & Nature Therapy (walking & talking).
We are passionately dedicated to breaking the silence of loneliness & isolation, creating a safe haven for women to forge connections, nurture their wellbeing & develop inner guidance to consciously choose the best path for their lives, reclaim their true identity,  connect to their higher self and being part of an amazing Community. 

TRAUMA therapist | RTT HYPNOTHERAPIST  | Herbal Practitioner | Brainspotting Therapist & Bob Proctor Consultant

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Brainspotting is an advanced brain body technique for healing emotional trauma, anxiety, depression and PTSD. It is one of the few techniques that effectively addresses the root cause of psychological stress and trauma. It is based on the premise that where you look, or your eye position, correlates with deep seated emotional experiences that are typically unreachable by traditional talk therapy. If you have ever felt stuck in a rut, high anxiety or repeating an unhealthy habit (despite your good intentions to change) then Brainspotting is an ideal therapy to help your breakthrough. 


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Walking & Talking

Nature provides you with a safe space where you can take a moment to breathe, think, and reflect, in an environment where self-exploration and personal healing can take place. Each of us hold the key to our own personal sense of inner freedom. And for my part it would be a pleasure to be a part of your journey. Walking is scientifically proven to be one of the most effective ways to reduce stress. Therefore integrating walking with spiritual counselling in a natural outdoor setting, makes this a very effective, powerful  
You might be feeling anxious, depressed, ashamed and angry. You might feel stressed out at work, or experiencing relationship difficulties, an identity crisis. Unrecognised or unacknowledged transitions are often at the root of these thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.



Rapid transformational therapy is a hybrid powerhouse combination of alternative therapies such as hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, neuroscience linguistic programming (NLP), and cognitive behavioural therapy, which allow you to very rapidly identify deeply embedded blocks and beliefs that stand in the way of living the life you truly want and absolutely 100% deserve. 
I use RTT to help you wire in a new belief of knowing you are worthy and good enough.

RTT can be used for : 
Psychological Abuse Self-esteem and Self-worth, Anxiety, Depression, Relationships 
Weight Control, PTSD/Complex PTSD 
Childhood Trauma, Addiction, Fears & Physical conditions 

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My multi-dimensional approach to your healing journey

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Designed to help you Heal, Alchemise & Deeply Nurture yourself  back to life from Karmic Relationships, Childhood Traumas, Co-Dependency, Perfectionism, Imposter syndrome, Anxiety Disorders & Burnout in your life to Self Empowerment, Self-love and a renewed sense of purpose using a holistic approach of healing the Body mind & spirit.

Side effects of Trauma Responses we work on are - Feeling stuck, Burnout, Apathy, Fear, Procrastination, ambivalence, lack of self trust (aka intuition) people pleasing, loneliness, analysis paralysis, Anxiety, feelings of being found out for being a fraud, guilt and shame & self worth.

This Program also guides you to also cultivate an empowered relationship with the dark   —understanding it not as something negative, but as the fertile grounds from which true power, compassion, and wisdom arise.



a Pilgrim to Freedom ™

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A one day retreat to receive the initiation the rite of the womb
This lineage of women freed themselves from suffering and wants us to remember the womb is not a place to store fear and pain, the womb is to create and give birth to life. Together we are a lineage of women who remembers that we did not come to suffer in this life but to be creators of our deepest longings & destinies
Learn about the Sacred wisdom of menstrual cycles, Female courage, assertiveness , joy & consciousness itself.


Rite of the womb

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"Holly was amazing. You can't go wrong working with her! I suffered a breakdown & couldn't see the woods from the trees.. "

"Holly was amazing. I suffered a breakdown and was unable to see the wood through the tree’s. RTT® was a truly unique experience and I am so thankful for this work. I have been able to overcome my anxiety and overwhelm and feel so much more positive about moving forward in my life. I had been receiving CBT, however within just 1 session of RTT®, I no longer feel anxious or depressed. I really admire and appreciate the work and I am excited as I continue to grow in confidence every day. Thank You.

kate w.

"Holly you have totally transformed my life & my unhealthy relationship with food!"

"I had one session with Holly where she used RTT therapy to get to the root of my problems with chocolate and unhealthy food choices. With the support of Holly and a personal recording for 21 days i am now seeing the benefits of the treatment and have lost 8lbs in 5 weeks and no longer have the urge to to eat unhealthily. Never would have i thought that one session of RTT hypnosis would solve my unhealthy relationship with food but it has and i now feel super confident. I can highly recommend Holly as a therapist as she is a total professional who truly wants to help others with issues they may be experiencing. Thank you Holly you have transformed my Life!

michelle Maslen

"Holly helped me go from Depression to self Expression"

"“This Mentorship  (The Reset) was life saving, I am so happy that I joined! I was exhausted from taking care of my mum and Holly helped me to go from Anxiety & Depression to self expression! I stopped procrastinating and got to work, I got clear on my vision, and most importantly, I’ve become determined, self confident and so much more. Holly you are a life changer! Thank you. I am forever grateful .”

Lucy W

"Holly puts you at complete ease!"

"You can make a massive jumps in consciousness in a very quick time. I'm left with a sense of space which allows me to grow. Ive let go of habits which were holding mw back. She unpicked years of thoughts that were holding me back in just one session! Thank you so much."

Emily K. 

RTT® removed an enormous weight off my shoulders. I remember an enormous sense of release. I am no longer walking around depressed and I am free from my medication. 

"I started drinking alcohol at the age of 21 and I never really stopped for 30 years. Other therapies just focused on the alcohol but no therapy ever really got to the root cause. 
RTT® removed an enormous weight off my shoulders. I remember an enormous sense of release. I am no longer walking around depressed and I am free from my medication. 
I am now 3 years sober thanks to RTT® and it has improved my entire life. Those around me now also know the real me now and they do not need to worry about me."

kayla r.

"Thanks for lighting my fire & setting me free.!"

I am Sooo.. grateful for the session you gave me today, It was difficult initially to admit that I had an issue with sex from childhood Trauma, but you was the right therapist at the right time, & I recommend you to anyone that is being held back from living a full life, for whatever reasons.
You have shifted something inside of me, I feel lighter & a definite shift in the way I now think about sex & relationships, the past is never going to hold me back anymore.
I don't feel embarrassed, ashamed or guilty about sex, I'm looking forward to a long healthy loving relationship with enough lenghthy playful sex to fulfil my life..
Thanks for lighting my fire & setting me free.


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Hollys Herbal Medicines & Remedies designed to support the physical, emotional & psycho-spiritual body will be coming soon from Garden to Farmacy.
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Remedies to heal the heart and open the soul

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“The world we live in is changing at an unnatural and unprecedented rate. We now bear witness to the impact of millennia of human life upon planet earth – and it is an alarming vision for us all. Perhaps it is unsurprising then, that this awakening to the global, environmental & societal truth, is coupled with an unprecedented surge in healing the mind body & spirit and the psychic disease of not "enoughness" & Perfectionism is impacting our natural world. The answers we are seeking have been in plain sight all along in our disconnection to nature – in nature, in the seasons, in the rhythms and cycles of life.”

"STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING, and book Holly for a Session now! You won't regret it!"

— Michelle S.

"After having a RTT session with Holly I became on fire to live out my purpose & stop procrastination !"

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Graduates of RTT complete a rigorous programme of training in order to become certified. We have been externally audited and validated as a training provider by organisational bodies across the world including: Complementary and Natural Healthcare Council (CNHC), General Hypnotherapy Register (GHR), American Board of Hypnotherapy (ABH), International Association of Counsellors & Therapists (IACT) and the International Institute for Complementary Therapists (IICT).