So what it means what it feels like the narcissist really loves you and help you get back to reality based thinking. one of the most difficult aspects of Therapy & coaching is helping clients understand what honest sincere love really looks like, and that an abusive or narcissistic person is incapable of genuine love. […]

Narcissists are like Paedophiles Narcissists are Like paedophiles (who sexually abuse children) Narcissists have a nose for co-dependent victims who are naturally unable to recognise they’re scheming and highly manipulative ways.   As with a paedophile a playground their laser guided vision, identifies and locks onto people who are the most vulnerable to their intentions […]

Narcissistic Abuse is similar to a Computer Virus Narcissistic abuse is similar to a computer virus, causing dysfunctional programming in the brain. Becoming like a piece of bad code…replicating itself and effectively corrupting the system and destroying data we’ve acquired about life and about ourselves throughout our lifetime. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ This ‘abuse program’ modifies our […]

The Draconian Soul Group The Draconian Soul group is a negative soul group which project spiritual abuse onto empaths, starseeds and other sensitive souls that may have not had the greatest environment from childhood.Their souls vibrational matrix is actually structured differently from that of positive souls, in that it is designed to receive vital force […]

Every person who comes out of a relationship with a narcissist experiences the impact of emotional trauma. Although traumas inflicted by pathological people might involve physical injuries and damage, the emotional traumas are often the hardest to overcome. If unaddressed, the results of these emotional experiences can last for years. here i  focus on the emotional […]

Narcissistic sociopaths can often make you feel drained. You’re not sure why but you always feel exhausted in the relationship. Narcissistic sociopaths have only one concern: themselves. Every move they make and everything they put energy into is only to nourish their own image and desires. Sometimes they don’t really realise they are doing it. […]

One of the tools of my healing modalities when working with clients recovering from Narcissistic Abuse and childhood attachment trauma is the practice of shamanism. The word “shaman” is  a healer who can access non-ordinary states and work with energy, symbols and archetypes in the service of healing clients. I offer “shamanic” work for my […]

A panic attack can feel terrifying. Those who suffer panic attacks often feel as if they’re going to die. Panic attacks are quite common when recovering from narcissistic abuse. While highly unpleasant, panic attacks are harmless and you have the power to lessen and eliminate the attack. If panic attacks are controlling your life, you […]

Social anxiety is a long term and overwhelming fear of social situations. It can present as having a persistent intense and chronic fear of being watched and judged by others and being embarrassed or humiliated by their own actions. It can be limited to one type of situation or In any type of social situation. […]

The Narcissist’s Idealising Agenda The narcissist grooms the victim and their family and friends to cultivate a sense of trust and commitment. He or she engages the victim’s empathy to accelerate bonding, loyalty, and attachment. The narcissist pretends to love the victim while actually planting seeds of self-doubt in the victim to foster emotional dependency […]